Are your old fundy friends still your friends?

[supernova8610]

I have two friends from my exIFB church. One is very fundy (I don't really consider him a friend anymore); the other is not and she has, in fact, stopped going to that church (she's also my cousin). My cousin used to get along very well with my fundy friend. She went to GSBC for a semester before she was kicked out for something she didn't even do. There was no evidence to support it either (they told her she had a heart problem... for not confessing to something she "supposedly" did; they only kicked her out based on another guy's word who was angry with her for breaking up with him. Anyway, after my cousin was kicked out this one fundy friend (and several others...not everyone, though; many more people were on her side) began to ignore her whenever he was around her. During church he would come up to both of us and shake my hand with a friendly greeting, but ignore her completely. My cousin and I had enough of it, and she and I wrote an email to him calling him out on his behavior. He got angry and denied everything, of course; he said he always came up to her and said hi, and said he would do so again. Guess what? The next time he had an opportunity do to so, he did not (I was watching him the whole time, to see how he would act toward her).

I've known this fundy guy since high school, and while he's always been a tad arrogant, I just didn't think he would treat anyone like this.