Are your old fundy friends still your friends?

[Ex-IFBer]

IFB no more----you seem to have the mentality that they still own you because your name is still on a piece of paper. Trust me, you dont need a "letter of transference" to attend or even be a member at another church...unless it's IFB. Other churches don't work that way. They just make you THINK they have all this influence over you but they don't. They are sooo inconsequential and down right intimidated by the world outside of their own. That's why they hate the "world" so much. They dont love you with a biblical sort of love so please stop letting them affect your life. Hope this was encouraging and taken in the tone in which it was written! :-)