Domestic Violence discussion (split from On being pro-life)

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(02-23-2011 09:31 AM)greg Wrote:  I'm delighted that you aren't not judgemental like those fundies are.

Actually, if you want to call it judgmental, I'm OK with that. (BTW, spelled it wrong. Might as well have fun with it.)Truth be told, you're way better at it than I am. I was never quite so good at it even in Fundyland. You've got that special je ne sais quoi going...

The fact is, all of us who have called you out on your hateful behavior are doing you a huge favor. Maybe until recently you haven't known you come off as a Fundy and don't want to be like that. In that case, we're trying to help you understand that the communication skills need serious work.

But then, if you're really a Fundy who gets kicks on being... well, yourself, then you'll go cry persecution and keep on not understanding that your behavior is the turn-off and not your ideas.