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**DestinyIsJoy** · 08-15-2012, 11:42 AM

I appreciate all the feedback. This morning, my head is on straight. I was caught up in transference because of being royally triggered. Had I not been, I would have asked to see evidence of advocacy training which Stephanie and Trisha should have that shows their training and certification. I am a rape crisis counselor and have had 45 hours of training and 6 years of experience. I know better, yet my fear for my family let me buy the whole "we'll take your story to the FBI thing." I am so stupid.

I think Jocelyn is a scam. I think her heart started in the right place, but she does not have the character to maintain being a head of a movement and is ruining it. She is spitting out victims right and left unless they fit her agenda.

I think Jocelyn banned me because she knew I was researching to help Trisha, saw my professional training as a threat and knew I would eventually come to the place I am now.

Stephanie might have started out having a good heart, but she shut down her PM and she is following the edict (don't talk to banned members). I wrote her two heart rending email and both have been ignored. I think Stephanie's credibility is in question to me because I am too hurt by her to care if she cares anymore.

So, now my eyes are opened. Questions are a good thing. Banning without warning, appeal, explanation is not. Thanks everyone. I think I'll stay here where insanity is at least balanced. Big Grin

Papa Bear · 08-15-2012, 11:51 AM

(08-15-2012 11:42 AM)DestinyIsJoy Wrote: Thanks everyone. I think I'll stay here where insanity is at least balanced.

Balanced insanity. I think that's the nicest thing anyone's ever said about us! Big Grin

08-15-2012, 11:54 AM

(08-15-2012 11:13 AM)redbeardiam Wrote:
Quote:Wow. What Drama. But also, what a Whack Job Jocelyn Zichterman is.

Holy Unnecessary Capitalization, Batman!

Sorry, I lost my phone last night and was up too late trying to find it. And you know the rest of the story from my PMs to you.

Tbird · 08-15-2012, 12:07 PM

some really weird stuff is going on. Trisha LaCroix continues to talk about she and Stephanie being personally attacked. I have seen very little of this. what I have seen ALOT of is Jocelyn Zichterman being called out for all the
Iies she's been telling. This is reminding me more and more of the tirades from "Jean Thompson", who was once considered another of Jocelyn's side-kicks. I remember posts by "Jean" slipping to where she made the mistake of referring to negativity toward Jocelyn in first-person, rather than in 3rd. For example "you are attacking ME" instead of "you are attacking Jocelyn". Lots and lots of excuses, avoiding questions, and talking out both sides of the mouth going on here. Craziness.

Tbird · 08-15-2012, 12:09 PM

And the "You Can't Handle the Truth" blog just keeps right on coming up with new stuff.

http://jocsapeckadilloes.blogspot.com/

What a mess.

~~SomethingFundy~~ · 08-15-2012, 12:50 PM

some of the people on there make me want to stay fundy.. really if you love violating your own conscious, do it in private.

**DestinyIsJoy** · 08-15-2012, 01:01 PM

(08-15-2012 11:51 AM)Papa Bear Wrote: Balanced insanity. I think that's the nicest thing anyone's ever said about us!

Now, now, PB, shhhh. your inward voices are showing! Big Grin

Papa Bear · 08-15-2012, 01:13 PM

I'm starting to think that you can take the Fundy out of the crazy, but you can't take the crazy out of the Fundy!

(08-15-2012 12:07 PM)Tbird Wrote: some really weird stuff is going on. Trisha LaCroix continues to talk about she and Stephanie being personally attacked. I have seen very little of this. what I have seen ALOT of is Jocelyn Zichterman being called out for all the
Iies she's been telling. This is reminding me more and more of the tirades from "Jean Thompson", who was once considered another of Jocelyn's side-kicks. I remember posts by "Jean" slipping to where she made the mistake of referring to negativity toward Jocelyn in first-person, rather than in 3rd. For example "you are attacking ME" instead of "you are attacking Jocelyn". Lots and lots of excuses, avoiding questions, and talking out both sides of the mouth going on here. Craziness.

(08-15-2012 01:01 PM)DestinyIsJoy Wrote:
(08-15-2012 11:51 AM)Papa Bear Wrote: Balanced insanity. I think that's the nicest thing anyone's ever said about us!

Now, now, PB, shhhh. your inward voices are showing!

**redbeardiam** · 08-15-2012, 02:02 PM

(08-15-2012 11:54 AM)Bob M Wrote:
(08-15-2012 11:13 AM)redbeardiam Wrote: Holy Unnecessary Capitalization, Batman!

Sorry, I lost my phone last night and was up too late trying to find it. And you know the rest of the story from my PMs to you.

Just trying to inject a little levity into a depressing thread. Shy

**pastor's wife** · 08-15-2012, 02:03 PM

It made me laugh!