Divorce and Remarriage

[Qrayze]

you know, when you get married and say your vows and make the super magical covenant between you, your spouse, and God, no where does it mention any children you have or may have together in the future. imo, while kids should be constantly assured that they are not the reason for the parent's divorce, the actual decision to divorce should have nothing to do with them. co-dependent/narcisistic relationships run rampant in the IFB, and saying you have to consider the kids is just another guilt trip to keep the co-dependent in his or her place.