Divorce and Remarriage

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I appreciate everybody's support for my situation. I'm new to posting on this forum, and I hope this doesn't become just a thread about me, cuz I'm sure that wasn't the original intent. (sorry to the original post Since I haven't figured out how to highlight specific portions of replies to comment on, I'll just quickly address two comments: My brother said the same thing about the porn: Why pay when you can get it for free? However, he was in live chat rooms: pick a girl, hair color, boob size, shaving/piercing preferences, toys, etc., and she'll perform. Guess you can't get that for free. And I have contacted a lawyer about protecting my assests, but he said that he can prove an emotionally distressing environment, which would "allow" me to leave. I hope he's right.
And to everyone who says it's always the wife's fault: yes, I have encountered this since the beginning. My sister in law says I should consider the beam in my eye before judging him for the mote in his. If I prayerfully ask God to show me how I drove my husband away, God will reveal to me how to mend this.
Again, thanks for the support. Nice to hear from others who have experienced the same things.