It happened again.

[Elijah Craig]

(04-23-2012 02:21 PM)redbeardiam Wrote:  Srsly. Pretty sure half his posts have been about how much EC sucks. Asshole? Occasionally. Spoiled, ignorant braggart seems like a stretch though. Not sure how anyone consistently proves themselves anything in the course of 2 days.

I think his exact words were "a neanderthal with sub-human intelligence" with a "lump of stool you call a brain."

And something about if I were more educated then I wouldn't turn down prostitutes when they solicit me.

[Hollandmichigan]

(04-23-2012 03:09 PM)Elijah Craig Wrote:  

(04-23-2012 02:21 PM)redbeardiam Wrote:  Srsly. Pretty sure half his posts have been about how much EC sucks. Asshole? Occasionally. Spoiled, ignorant braggart seems like a stretch though. Not sure how anyone consistently proves themselves anything in the course of 2 days.

I think his exact words were "a neanderthal with sub-human intelligence" with a "lump of stool you call a brain."

And something about if I were more educated then I wouldn't turn down prostitutes when they solicit me.

Sure, after you called me a dumbass. And i never said you'd sleep with prostitutrs if you were more educated, althiugh you might be less bigoted toqard sex-workers-- but regardless, if you think that takibg up sex workers is embarassing then i douvt we're ever going to see eye to eue o_O

[boymom]

E.C., you just draw out the best in people.

[Elijah Craig]

(04-23-2012 03:45 PM)boymom Wrote:  E.C., you just draw out the best in people.

Funny thing is on the other board when I said that mail order brides were only a shade different than American women in loveless marriages of necessity or convenience, I was condemned for comparing marriage to prostitution.

It's a subject I know better than to bring up but I do it anyway because I'm like that. I guess it's just been on my mind since I moved back to this busted little city. I see how hard single mothers in a largely blue collar economy struggle to survive and the price they pay financially and emotionally for a decision to have sex with a guy. I've come to see how the idea that marriage is about romantic love is wrong-headed and has tremendous social costs. Marriage has always, since ancient times, been about making sure women were taken care of. If it turns out a marriage is something higher and nobler, then that's great and of course I would encourage my female friends not to "settle" but I was speaking about the custom as a whole.

[Hollandmichigan]

Very good article written by a former sex-worker who enjoyed the experience, if anyone is interested:

http://freethoughtblogs.com/greta/2012/0...r-stories/

[Donb123]

(04-23-2012 06:26 PM)Hollandmichigan Wrote:  Very good article written by a former sex-worker who enjoyed the experience, if anyone is interested:

http://freethoughtblogs.com/greta/2012/0...r-stories/

I suppose there's always an exception that proves the rule.

[Elijah Craig]

I've come to realize that much of my sex drive is a desire for acceptance. If the sex act is reduced to commodity that can be purchased than I know she not really accepting me. For the same reason, porn usually has almost no pull on me. It's not even a real human body that I can touch, so looking at it would make me feel like a loser. Of course I'm not saying that there's no physical dimension to it.

And while I do realize that women need to acceptance and to feel attractive to a man, and this is part of the reason that a overwhelming majority of couples do in fact have sex before marriage, I can't help but believe that given the risk women take when they have sex, their partner owes them at least some level of security-- emotional, physical, financial, and whatever. Ideally that would be marriage but in reality the bar is a good bit lower, but I do believe that decent, healthy people do at least have some sort of standard.

I operate from the general principle that if I walk into a bar I am not going to try to get laid, no matter how good looking or into me she seems to be.

[Hollandmichigan]

(04-23-2012 07:16 PM)Elijah Craig Wrote:  And while I do realize that women need to acceptance and to feel attractive to a man, and this is part of the reason that a overwhelming majority of couples do in fact have sex before marriage, I can't help but believe that given the risk women take when they have sex, their partner owes them at least some level of security-- emotional, physical, financial, and whatever.

I wish there was a raging feminist on this forumn. She'd make me look like a fluffy bunny after she's done shredding this sexist dribbel to pieces. I'll be in the bathroom vomiting

[I should be working]

(04-23-2012 07:29 PM)Hollandmichigan Wrote:  I'll be in the bathroom vomiting

Do you use the one-finger method? Or two?

[Hollandmichigan]

(04-23-2012 07:39 PM)I should be working Wrote:  

(04-23-2012 07:29 PM)Hollandmichigan Wrote:  I'll be in the bathroom vomiting

Do you use the one-finger method? Or two?

None needed in this case