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RE: Dating for Recovering Fundies - amyrose5 - 10-02-2011 01:04 PM
(10-01-2011 06:49 PM)senda wales Wrote: Sorry to turn this into a "weirdest pick-up lines/scenarios" thread but a little advice for you guys: if you see a girl you think is pretty taking a nap outside in the grass on campus, you do NOT sneak up on her while she's sleeping, wait for her to wake up and see you crouching next to her, and then tell her that she has really pretty feet and that you have a fetish for feet and can you massage them. The answer is NO!!!!!! OMG WTF??!
I think I'm going to take a shower and boil my feet now. kthx.
OT--but related to foot fetishes. When I was teaching, we had a non-traditional student from the local college come in to observe teachers in the English department. The guy was in his 50s and seemed creepy on first sight as it was. He spent his first period in the middle school teachers classroom and after the period ended, she asked him if he had any comments or questions. He asked about the height of her heels and the color of her toenail polish and if she had thought about an ankle bracelet.
Of course, I did not know this yet when he came to my room for the next period. I had high school. I kept noticing that he was focusing on the floor for the whole period (or so I thought). Turned out he was watching my feet and checking out the senior girls' feet. He commented at the end of the period on how many of them had lovely feet. (It was early fall, still warm and most of us had on sandals).
He was supposed to come once a week for eight weeks. We told the department head, a male, that we would not have him in our classrooms again. He called the college supervisor. He didn't come back, but we never knew if he continued for an education degree or not. I sincerely hope not.
RE: Dating for Recovering Fundies - Elijah Craig - 10-02-2011 01:18 PM
I can't understand why any man who was going to gawk at a woman would chose to focus on her feet.
RE: Dating for Recovering Fundies - senda wales - 10-02-2011 01:41 PM
I wanted to use one of my pretty little feet and kick him in the face, he was that close by.
It's not really the first time a guy has complimented and otherwise been intrigued by my feet. I don't really get it.
RE: Dating for Recovering Fundies - Jeremy - 10-03-2011 01:35 AM
(10-02-2011 01:41 PM)senda wales Wrote: I wanted to use one of my pretty little feet and kick him in the face, he was that close by.
It's not really the first time a guy has complimented and otherwise been intrigued by my feet. I don't really get it.
This may be a bad time, but...have you noticed you have a big picture of feet as your avatar?
RE: Dating for Recovering Fundies - senda wales - 10-03-2011 01:37 AM
(10-03-2011 01:35 AM)Jeremy Wrote:(10-02-2011 01:41 PM)senda wales Wrote: I wanted to use one of my pretty little feet and kick him in the face, he was that close by.
It's not really the first time a guy has complimented and otherwise been intrigued by my feet. I don't really get it.
This may be a bad time, but...have you noticed you have a big picture of feet as your avatar?
Yes, I know. I think it's time for a new avatar.
RE: Dating for Recovering Fundies - Elijah Craig - 10-03-2011 05:36 PM
(10-03-2011 01:35 AM)Jeremy Wrote:(10-02-2011 01:41 PM)senda wales Wrote: I wanted to use one of my pretty little feet and kick him in the face, he was that close by.
It's not really the first time a guy has complimented and otherwise been intrigued by my feet. I don't really get it.
This may be a bad time, but...have you noticed you have a big picture of feet as your avatar?
+1
RE: Dating for Recovering Fundies - Elijah Craig - 10-09-2011 08:05 PM
RE: Dating for Recovering Fundies - Elijah Craig - 02-26-2012 04:38 PM
(09-20-2011 09:27 PM)Elijah Craig Wrote:(09-20-2011 09:31 AM)C_Fresh Wrote: In my case, I don't read people very well, especially women, so subtle hints will probably be missed.
Last Friday night I stepped into a bar and within 20 minutes two different women walked up to me and said "I want to F&#% you!"
I still don't know what they meant.
I need to correct this story. It turns out I did, in fact, know exactly what they meant.
One of the women, a light-skinned African American was "late" and the baby daddy, a white guy, had been arrested and lost his job the week before.
My decision to tell her I was going to the bathroom and walk out the back door to the club was precisely the correct move.
RE: Dating for Recovering Fundies - senda wales - 02-26-2012 06:06 PM
Oh, this thread.
Ok, so I've dated 2 guys since the new year. Great way to start 2012! Met them both salsa dancing in Silicon Valley - great way to meet nerds who are artistic, fun, and athletic. I've really tried to focus on just enjoying myself and having fun when I'm out on a date. I try not to think about whether this will make it to date #2, 3, etc. or if I'm gonna see the guy again.
Distance from fundyland and all of the associated guilt has helped me feel a lot more comfortable in my own skin. I think I still come across as conservative and probably boring to those who lead wilder lifestyles but at least my nervousness from fundy guilt doesn't crimp on my style now.
RE: Dating for Recovering Fundies - Elijah Craig - 02-26-2012 06:16 PM
Hmmm.... here in Silicon Holler the only dancing that happens is some sort of hillbilly gavotte.
I suppose if I went to a "club" I might find some grinding or something but I try to stay out of those places.